Love yourself!

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Hey girl, 

If you are feeling lonely, shattered, sad and depressed because you lost your love, then you are just sabotaging your happiness. You don't have to go through that pain. If someone is hurting you, if someone is not happy with you, then you should let that person go. Don't cry for someone who doesn't love you. Don't cry for someone who doesn't need you. Don't cry for someone who is happy without you and who is okay without you. Don't think about that man and hurt yourself every day and every second of your life. Don't let him corrupt your thoughts and make you feel low and unloved. 


Instead, 
read a book, 
pour down your feelings on paper, 
go and do some shopping alone, 
eat all the detectable food at your favourite restaurants alone, 
watch a movie alone, 
travel to distant places, 
explore the world alone, 
enjoy the tranquillity, 
find your inner peace, 
find yourself, 
find your happiness, 
find that lost girl, 
bring her back, 
embrace her, 
tell her that it's okay, 
tell her that it is okay to lose sometimes, 
it is okay to get hurt, 
it is okay to cry, 
it is okay to be betrayed, 
it is okay to let go. 
and it is okay to be alone. 


The more time you spend with yourself the more you will love yourself again. You don’t need a man to define u, you don’t need someone to give you a label and introduce you to the world as his wife or girlfriend. You don’t have to chase someone asking them to define the relationship with you. You don’t have to. You are enough. You can cross the oceans and move the mountains girl. And if your man is treating you like you are ordinary if he is making you cry if he doesn't care what you feel. Then you don’t need him in your life. You deserve a better man. 


Be with someone who sees you beyond your naked body, 
who knows the real you, 
who guards your heart, 
who can hear your thoughts, 
who can feel your emotions, 
who notices minute details about you. 


Be with someone who enjoys your presence, someone available for you, 
someone who has time, 
and someone who makes time for you. 


Be with someone who is matured, 
who thinks about you, 
someone who talks about you with respect even in your absence, 
someone who fights for you with the world, 
someone who makes sacrifices for you but who does not sacrifice you for others, 
and someone who makes you a better person every day. 


Be with that one man who can be 
your home, 
your dream, 
your smile, 
your respect, 
your army, 
your comfort
and your peace. 


Be with that person. You might not come across that person till now. It might take a little longer. But one day u will meet him, till then go on dates, pay your bills, dress like a queen, walk like you own the fuckin' show, and break the glass ceiling with your high heels. But never be with the wrong person. Because you deserve love and only love and nothing less! 

Love and Light 🖤
©Author Queeny Yalangi. 

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